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Sherry Shealy Martschink's avatar

I always enjoy your writing and seem to identify with so many of the feelings you express so well.

Cindy Eastman's avatar

Thank you, Sherry. How generous of you to let me know. I appreciate that. :)

Andrea Ezerins's avatar

Loved this!

Cindy Eastman's avatar

Thank you, Andrea!

Heidi Durig Heiby's avatar

Much of this sounds so familiar to me. I love this and knowing about Diane and the fact that we shy folk are not alone in our high school experiences. That others still have all the feels after many years. Have a wonderful time with Diane. I have 2 life-long friends without whom I don't know how I would survive to be honest.

Cindy Eastman's avatar

I thought we were kindred spirits! :)

Heidi Durig Heiby's avatar

Aww I love this. Yes!

Diane Lentz's avatar

I'm not crying! I just loved this and I wondered who is she writing about? The day our paths crossed was one of the best days. I remember YOU being my rock. No matter how much time passes, we always pick up right where we left off. Thank you so much for your kind words. I love you, my friend, and can't wait to see you for some quality Cindy/Diane time! I will get up to Connecticut sooner, rather than later :-)

Cindy Eastman's avatar

And after CT...Maine! I can't wait for you to finally experience that place! But first, I can't wait to spend some time with you. It will be a wonderful reunion, that's for sure! xo

Sallye Pence's avatar

Cindy, I am so glad to see this! I will be looking for you and Diane at the reunion. I have so many of the same feelings that you have.... but in the end, it will be fun to see everyone and know that we have aged and gotten wiser? over the years. Yes - I will still worry about what to wear and what my thinning hair is doing but I am looking forward to seeing friends I have not seen in many years!

Sallye

Cindy Eastman's avatar

How nice to hear from you Sallye! It will be nice to see everyone and I'm pretty sure no one will care--or remember!--what anyone is wearing or what their hair is doing. Maybe I'll wear a hat! ;)

Kathleen Reimold's avatar

Loved this. Much in common. How lucky to have a lifelong relationship like that. 😍

Cindy Eastman's avatar

I am lucky. Just as lucky with my mid-life-long friendships, too! ♥️

Jean Elizabeth Grabowski's avatar

Cindy, so glad you are coming to visit with Diane. I tell you I remember wherever she was you were and wherever you were she was. That is how I remember you two. Peas in a pod. I always viewed you as grounded, sensitive and safe. Your writing is wonderful and I have enjoyed so much of it. I will not be attending this year and so sad to miss you. My Mother recently passed and I am dealing with so much. It was a blessing to care for her. Difficult while working full time however, I would do it all again. Being her only caregiver for the last 10 years we or rather I was able to mend so much of the Mother/Daughter drama. I told Kurt, if I felt like coming Saturday, I would, however it would be a last, very last moment decision. Have so much fun with Diane when you are here in Louisville. We all have our high school stories and over the last few weeks I have shared some with Kurt. We have a good class and we have good people in the class of 1976. Hugs to both you and Diane., and so much love. Enjoy your time Saturday, everyone has their stories of High School Survival. Maybe some will surprise you. Love ya, jean grabowski

Cindy Eastman's avatar

Jean, I'm so sorry about the loss of your mother and happy that you experienced some healing time from your years as her caregiver. I know very well how demanding that responsibility can be.

I am only going to the Friday night event, so if you make a last minute decision about that one, maybe we'll see each other. Thanks so much for connecting here. xo

Deborah Way's avatar

Love this and looking forward to hearing about your 50th 💞

Cindy Eastman's avatar

Thanks. :) It's possible I'll mention it at some point afterwards 😏

Joy Nicholas's avatar

What a gift to have a friend like Diane! Loved this!

Cindy Eastman's avatar

A true gift...a true friend. Thank you!

Mary Peitler's avatar

What a beautiful story! Thank you for sharing and have a great time!

Cindy Eastman's avatar

Thank you, Mary, for taking the time to read it. I'm looking forward to it!