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My name is Cornelia Dinnean. I was in Smilow Hospital last week. Annie was my roommate. We talked. I'm fighting my own Breast Caner battle. I found the lump while showering on July 3, 2023. My 2nd Chemotherapy Infusion is Tuesday, November 7th. There isn't much I can do for Annie but pray, which I'm doing. I'm single, 68, all my family is dead so I'm doing this journey alone. I have friends but most of them are not here, in Connecticut. Anyway, I know today is Luca's 12 Birthday. I so hope Annie is home for it and that she was home for Halloween as well. I am praying for Annie and Luca, her husband and you, her Mother. I am so sorry and outraged that this is happening to Annie. If you've energy for it try to get an appointment to talk to Rosa DeLaura and talk to her orr writw her. More importantly, per research and funding write Taylor Swift. Her mother Andrea has breast cancer and had a recurrence. It metaticized to her brain. Taylor's Song SOON YOU'LL GET BETTER is about her experience of her Mother's Breast Cancer. Google it. You are very articulate and passionate as is Taylor. You, the Mother about her Daughter. Taylor, the Daughter about her Mother. If anyone can command attention to an issue and fund research as well it is Taylor Swift. Connect with her. That is where my prayer, reflection and outrage have lead me. On Luca's 12 Birthday may you be inspired to reach out and connect with Taylor Swift and her Mother Andera Finley Swift. My birthday is January 12th, Andrea Swifte's is January 10th and Annie's is January 17th. Taylor's is December 13th. Born in 1989. Taylor loves her Birthday! Maybe send Taylor a letter on her Birthday? I hope you do this. You have everything you need to do it. Together you could literally change the world for Women with Breast Cancer. "If not now..." Blessings and Love and Power, Cornelia

P.S.Annie has my phone number. Give her my love. My image for Chemotherapy Treatment 12 Bengali Tigers in 24 pairs of Pointe Shoes on a mission to find every hiding cancer cell in my body and obliterate them. My signature for this:

🩰🐅🩰×12 =...⚓️....🫶🏻 is Taylor's Icon

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Cindy Eastman's avatar

Hi Cornelia.

You have family now.

Thank you so much for this beautiful message and your heartfelt wishes to all of us. I passed along the message to Annie, who I'm sure will be moved by it. She told me about you and I was sorry I didn't get to meet you. But I'm glad to meet you this way! I'm not sure how to contact Taylor Swift, but I'll keep Rosa DeLauro in mind. There certainly does need to be some change in the way metastatic breast cancer is treated.

Thank you again for sending this to me. It brought a smile to my face and the grateful knowledge that Annie has such fierce supporters. Sending the same kind of fierce support back to you!

Cindy

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Kathleen Reimold's avatar

Wonderful, direct and honest writing. The pain is soaked into the words.

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Mary E Plouffe Ph D's avatar

So true, so sad, so infuriating. I have always hated that infantilizing choice of pink..the color of princesses and unicorns... for the curse of a cancer that kills time and time again. We do not want community.. we want cures.. and a little respect along the way.

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Katrina Anne Willis's avatar

It is always shocking to me that we pour SO MUCH MONEY into cancer -- especially breast cancer -- and we still haven't figured out a cure.

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